tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post4336198713927233054..comments2023-11-05T02:53:30.392-08:00Comments on Figs, lavender, and cheese: I stand accused . . . and feel totally shit uponCindyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08186499647670460862noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-1495684586135727592008-01-29T10:48:00.000-08:002008-01-29T10:48:00.000-08:00wow. a list.i have to admit, i admire the list as...wow. a list.<BR/>i have to admit, i admire the list as a tool. but not to make you into one.<BR/><BR/>i could go on and on but then it would turn into my own rant, and girl, i won't take that away from you.<BR/><BR/>and i never understood the concept of making your blog ONLY YOUR HAPPY PLACE...WtVr.<BR/><BR/>offer to get you some drunk still stands. we can start by licking the pinot noir off my laptop and move on up to lemon drops.gwendomamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08439664476465264089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-37739421014420973322008-01-25T10:02:00.000-08:002008-01-25T10:02:00.000-08:00Thanks for letting me vent and for all the support...Thanks for letting me vent and for all the support. You all really picked up my spirits!!<BR/><BR/>xxooCindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08186499647670460862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-53607618785118803412008-01-25T09:59:00.000-08:002008-01-25T09:59:00.000-08:00If my husband presented me with a list like this ...If my husband presented me with a list like this he would be sleeping in the garage and eating whatever he could scare up at the gas station down the street. I'm a little PMSy today, but seriously, that's ridiculous! It's one thing to be honest about what you would like your partner to do differently - it's another to send her a memo & treat her like a subordinate!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09707629179642444026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-46302458361794700672008-01-25T07:00:00.000-08:002008-01-25T07:00:00.000-08:00There is no doubt you are a kick-ass wife. WAY bet...There is no doubt you are a kick-ass wife. WAY better than me. AND, you didn't shove that note up his nose like I would have done. No, seriously, I would have. You're also taking wonderful care of your beautiful girl. The MIL comes over a lot AND you cook for her.That right there qualifies you for sainthood. You sound pretty near perfect to me! Tell him to get up and shut the damn door himself. AND, tell him if you're out "too" late, he should be waiting up for you to make sure you're alright, not in the bed sulking. Well, I'm a hot head, and those words would probably not be a solution, but it sounds like he needs a kick in the ass from one kick-ass wife and mother. You go girl...Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14216941806907177541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-2008994204673466982008-01-25T06:20:00.000-08:002008-01-25T06:20:00.000-08:00Take the spell of the magic underwear drawer and t...Take the spell of the magic underwear drawer and they come crawling with apologies. <BR/><BR/>Always works at my house anyway.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03575824415627306078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-57372147855639207682008-01-24T19:02:00.000-08:002008-01-24T19:02:00.000-08:00Ha. Hahaha - oh my god, I really think my husband ...Ha. Hahaha - oh my god, I really think my husband would love to write me one of those notes and I would love to write one for him!<BR/><BR/>But SERIOUSLY? We work, cook dinner every night, clean, do the laundry - what are these guys complaining about?Greens and Pinkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15576231871846001992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-59265105501013508282008-01-24T15:06:00.000-08:002008-01-24T15:06:00.000-08:00I'm not so sure he's really angry about those thin...I'm not so sure he's really angry about those things. We've all been there before either as passive aggressors or their victim (you being victim today). What's really bugging him? This is the hard part for all of us, to discuss the real issue -- you know, the one that makes us disguise our hurt and anger with notes such as he left. ps: I was thinking more about your karmic hit and even tho I think it was karmic, I still commend you for having your husband's Mom over for dinner every Sunday night. What a kind, warm-hearted, generous, selfless thing to do!Adelaidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12389764517969124725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-63781332603380002402008-01-24T13:58:00.000-08:002008-01-24T13:58:00.000-08:00Oh man, Cindy, I have SO been here. D.'s big thing...Oh man, Cindy, I have SO been here. D.'s big thing is to heave those dramatic exasperated sighs in my direction whenever I do something wrong. But heaven forbid I point out one little thing that he's done lest I risk sending him into the throws of a conniption fit over just whose offences are more egregious. Argh. <BR/><BR/>Know what? You ARE the most kick-ass wife ever. And we all recognize that. :)Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09536095910853911604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-63175182273194009412008-01-24T13:20:00.000-08:002008-01-24T13:20:00.000-08:00sorry i brought the list of self-improvement up. y...sorry i brought the list of self-improvement up. you rock. i'd marry you. i could put out a meal every night, but alas, i refuse, because i drive carpool, am the Vice Pres of my kids pta-like dadada, AND the treasurer, work part-time, and don't iron, because curiously, along with becoming a parent i've developed an affinity for wrinkles in fabric. he is sooooo busted for hassling you after a dump on the scooter. who bought that blasted thing for you anyway?sabihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13841084176374548628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-51274264715635808652008-01-24T12:30:00.000-08:002008-01-24T12:30:00.000-08:00Okay, confession time, I'm a lot like your hubby w...Okay, confession time, I'm a lot like your hubby who criticizes more than compliments. I think you should write him a list of how you feel when he writes your a list. See if he responds better than "you need to improve". BTW, you iron your dinner napkin?! WOW!Alatcalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10551754071169639733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-58550011611705246752008-01-24T12:25:00.000-08:002008-01-24T12:25:00.000-08:00I'd be mad, too! I hope writing about it helped yo...I'd be mad, too! I hope writing about it helped you blow off some steam...<BR/><BR/>Seriously, I'm so impressed at your culinary skills; Sam is lucky if he gets a home-cooked meal twice a weak. I don't think your husband knows how good he has it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2656348557370314559.post-31510709376787875562008-01-24T12:14:00.000-08:002008-01-24T12:14:00.000-08:00Would so lose my temper at this point. Have you m...Would so lose my temper at this point. Have you made a list for him?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com